Physician,Primary Care,Psychiatry How Minor Acts of Kindness, Such as Sending Cards, Can Have a Positive Effect on Physicians

How Minor Acts of Kindness, Such as Sending Cards, Can Have a Positive Effect on Physicians

How Minor Acts of Kindness, Such as Sending Cards, Can Have a Positive Effect on Physicians


# The Impact of a Simple Thank-You: How Handwritten Notes Can Uplift Physicians

As Doctors’ Day on March 30 draws near, we are reminded of the remarkable influence physicians have on our lives. They commit themselves to healing, often at significant personal expense. However, while we honor their contributions, one important aspect frequently goes overlooked—the emotional strain of their profession.

Physicians invest so much of themselves, yet their emotional needs often go unnoticed. What if there were a straightforward yet meaningful way to remind them that their hard work is valued?

Visualize the effect of a sincere, handwritten note on a fatigued physician.

## The Restorative Power of Thanks

Gratitude is an immense force, capable of elevating spirits and building resilience. A simple act of kindness—like sending a note of appreciation—can have a profound impact on doctors who frequently find themselves overwhelmed by the demands of their jobs.

Recently, I spoke with Dr. Erin Hurley, a physician coach and wellness advocate, and Dawn Veselka, the mind behind the *Cards2Warriors Happy Mail* initiative. We talked about how small acts of appreciation, such as sending a handwritten note, can act as essential encouragement for doctors.

Dawn’s *Cards2Warriors* initiative has traditionally sent cards to patients and caregivers, and now she is broadening it to encompass doctors. The objective? To send not just cards, but also hope.

## A Field in Need of Support

The medical field has experienced considerable changes in the past decade. Physicians once described their professions as *fulfilling, collaborative, challenging, meaningful,* and even *predictable.* Nowadays, however, doctors often use terms like *unstable, exhausting, frustrating, isolating,* and *demoralizing* to characterize their experiences.

With burnout rates nearing 50% and physician suicide rates significantly elevated compared to other fields, it’s evident that hope and inspiration are desperately needed.

### A Personal Account of Support

Dr. Hurley recounted how much she valued the colorful cards and drawings she received from patients during her 25 years in pediatrics.

*”On difficult days, when I doubted my impact, those cards reassured me that I was making a difference.”*

She also remembered a defining moment during her second year of medical school:

*”I was drained, preparing for my USMLE Boards Part I, when a package arrived. Inside were over twenty handmade cards from my sister’s third-grade class—kids I had never met. Their messages of encouragement uplifted me in a way I will always remember. Years later, I still reflect on that package. It reminded me that even the smallest gestures can leave a lasting impression.”*

### A Simple Challenge: One Note, One Doctor

Expressing appreciation doesn’t necessitate a grand gesture. In fact, the simplest actions can yield the most significant effects.

We challenge you to write just *one* handwritten note to a doctor by March 30. This small act could:

✅ Revitalize a doctor running on fumes.
✅ Restore hope in a doctor questioning their purpose.
✅ Provide a tangible reminder of their influence on challenging days.

Research, such as that by Cameron et al. (2011), illustrates how positive emotions can circulate within teams, enhancing morale and job satisfaction. A single note could spark a larger movement of appreciation within healthcare.

## Launch Your Own Kindness Initiative

Feeling motivated? Encourage a friend or colleague to join you in composing handwritten notes of gratitude. The ripple effect from this simple act could create waves of support throughout the medical community.

Physician advocates, like Dr. Hurley and Kim Downey, are already organizing card-writing gatherings and raising awareness through their podcasts and social media platforms. Together, we can amplify this movement and convey to our doctors the depth of our appreciation.

## Small Gestures, Significant Impact

Many physicians have shared how much they value notes of appreciation from patients:

🔹 *”A simple handwritten note can mean so much to those who dedicate their lives to helping others!”* — Dr. Brittne Halford
🔹 *”I have saved every card, letter, and encouraging word a patient has ever sent my way. Those heartfelt notes are an incredible source of support on tough days!”* — Dr. Michael Hersh

## Let’s Recognize Our Health Care Heroes

Doctors are more than just medical professionals; they are the leaders, caregivers, and healers who stand by us during our most vulnerable times. They give up so much for others, and a straightforward expression of gratitude can remind them that their work truly has significance.

Take a moment today to reflect on the doctor who made a difference in your life. What stands out? Maybe they displayed extraordinary kindness, took the time to listen, or offered essential emotional support. Whatever the reason, let them know by writing a handwritten note.

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